Archive for December 2009

In Pictures: “Nobody’s people” caught in the “buffer zone”

by Dushiyanthini Kanagasabapathipillai

“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” – Maya Angelou, 4 April 1928

Today is the 5th anniversary of a tsunami that devastated our country. Five years on, but how many of us still care for the people who suffered?

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They are waiting for many years to rebuild their lives

The tsunami hit the Indian Ocean, killing nearly hundreds of thousands in eleven countries and inundating coastal communities with waves unto one hundred feet. According to experts, it was one of the deadliest natural disasters in recorded history. Indonesia, Sri Lanka, Thailand and India were the hardest hit.

About thirty thousand people were killed in tsunami, millions injured and many more left homeless in Sri Lanka. The tidal waves hit North, East and South coastal areas.

All rushed to the spots to help the victims on December 26th 2004. People canceled their holidays, and work and took part in the process of recovering dead bodies and clearing debris. I covered the tsunami stories continuously for many months. I have traveled to North, East and South of Sri Lanka to cover untold stories. I kept traveling to the same areas after many years. My memories stand still like statues in my mind. I keep meeting the same people in these areas, where they are still struggling to survive. Most of the survivors are hesitant to recall the memories saying “it brings sadness and they want to pray for their loved ones who were killed to rest in peace”. The memories are sad and unforgettable!

There are 55 families – 205 persons (males-60 persons, females-80 persons, and children-65 persons) still live in tin sheds in Sainthamaruthu (in the Eastern Province), living behind the Jummah Mosque. Their living space is squeezed into few meters. There are only two toilets which are currently functioning, there in only one bathroom for males and females. And only three drinking water taps are in the compound. The place gets flooded immediately when it rains. It is very hot inside during the Sunny days. Snakes are their frequent visitors in the night. Flu and Chicken Pox have been infected by many in the past.

The living space looks congested with few furniture, kitchen utensils and clothes and few of them have pets such as cats and chicken. The residents here are frustrated to continue live under these circumstances. Their houses were under 65 meter buffer zone in Saainthamaruthu. They feel that “they are nobody’s people”. Most them here in Saainthamaruthu think they are not lucky, and curse their fate for being unfortunate. “Will we be getting permanent houses next year?” many ask often, but the question remains unanswered.

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Tents are in a row

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There is no privacy

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“We are still suffering.Politicians visit us,when they want our votes” says Abdul Kaathar (50) who is a fisherman

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Posters at the temporary shelters read as “Politicians who come and ask for our votes!Don’t you know we struggle to survive?”

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Dirty water passes nearby where the people live

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Salma Ammen (40) lives in this small tin shed with o other family members

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Many live within a limited space

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“We are unwanted. We are still suffering” says Mahmud Kaasim Raseena Umma (57)

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It gets flooded during rain

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“I am a fisherman, and I need to live closer to the sea” says M.C.M.Haniffa (58)

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No recreational place for the children

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“Almighty Allah saved me from Tsunami,and I am confined to a small place now” says Mohamed Ismail Muhlood Umma (62)

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Nobody visits them now

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Toilets in a row, but only two are functional

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“How long can I live like this?” queries Fathima Ayesha Umma (62)

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Paddy is kept for drying in the Sun

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“There had been few electrical short circuits. We have to be extra careful with the children” says M.C.M.Jamaaldeen (55)

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There is a new housing scheme,but houses are not yet handed over to the people

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“I am a Mason, and I have to find a better income to look after my family.I do not have a permanent house yet” laments Meera Mohideen Sinnarasa (42)

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According to officials, in Saainthamauthu and Kamunai at least 1,300 families still await permanent housing.

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“I have unmarried young daughters,I cannot continue to live like this,but on the other hand I am not rich to go out of this temporary shelter and buy a new house” laments Mohideen Baba Saaliya Umma (44)

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Most residents remain confused about the process

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Children are growing and more space is needed

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Daily residents are learning to share the space

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They are looking forward to a new beginning

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Tsunami warning tower is established in the coastal line all over Sri Lanka

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Tsunami monument on the shore of Kaaraitheevu
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In Saainthamaruthu: Indelible sorrowful memories of kith and kin

by Dushiyanthini Kanagasabapathipillai

“I saw the waves hitting at 500 meters & coming into the village very fast. Waves were black & came with a noise” says Mohamed Mustafa Najeem (23)

“I stopped eating,took my maternal grandma & left her on a flat & began to help others.There was chaos & people began to panic”.

“Many women in their bathing robes found dead in Saainthamaruthu. We cannot touch women’s body due to religious reasons,but had no other way”

“I am usually sacred to see dead bodies, but on Tsunami day I had courage to carry dead bodies from debris. I took injured people to hospital.

“I carried my neighbor’s 9 year-old son’s body to hospital. I saw many dead bodies at the Ashroff Memorial Hospital, relatives kept crying”.

“I lost a few relatives. It was difficult to witness the tragedy.It took many months to clean our village.Tsunami memories can’t be erased”.

“I never told anybody, I want to tell you, because you are like my own sister. I saw my classmate Fathima Asmiya’s body among chairs & tables”.

“I tried to pull her body out of the debris,but her hand got dislocated & came along, not her body” recalls Mohamed Mustafa Najeem with tears.

“I kept trying. I sat down,nobody wanted to help me because of the bad smell. Later few friends helped me out to get her body out of debris”.

“How can I forget the memories of Tsunami?” queries Mohamed Mustafa Najeem. 3,500 people killed in Saainthamaruthu. Many moved to relief camps
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In Thiraaimadu, Batticaloa: Self-confidence and courage amidst multiple tragedies

by Dushiyanthini Kanagasabapathipillai

“I lost my house in Tsunami in 2004 in Kallady. I built the house not with my sweat, but with my blood ” recalls Rajeswary Sithravadivel.

“I took a big loan & built the house,I could not bear it was completely destroyed” says Rajeswary Sithravadivel with tears filled eyes.

She got some help from the Government & an NGO and managed to build a small house in Thiraaimadu, where Tsunami resettlement houses are built.

She got displaced twice in her life-In 1983 from Colombo to Batticaloa after Black July riots & in 1990 from Batticaloa to Colombo.

She went back to Batticaloa in 1996. She works as a minor staff at the Batticaloa Teaching Hospital. Her average monthly income is Rs.18,800/=

Triple sister became widows in 1990.Rajeswary Sithravadivel and her two elder sister’s husbands went missing from Batticaloa in 1990.

“It was a tragedy.All three of us with children had to face the same situation.We consoled each other” says Rajeswary Sithravadivel

At 44 Rajeswary Sithravadivel is still struggling to survive with her daughter.She got her husband’s death certificate after 10 years.

“It was an arranged marriage.My husband was from Velanai in Jaffna.We led a happy married life.When my husband went missing,I was lost”.

“But I have decided to live,because of my daughter.Now she is grown up,she is 21 years-old&I have to find a good job&life partner for her”.

“I have searched for my husband,but found him nowhere.I began to cultivate self-confidence&led my life all alone from 18th June 1990″.

“I raised my daughter alone with so many difficukties,and educated her.She lives a life without father’s love”.

“I have double tragedy in my family,and I wish nobody in the world should face the same situation.It’s heartbreaking!”.

She makes candles&incense sticks at home & sells in order to earn an extra income to support her family&earns monthly Rs.8,000/=-Rs.10,000/=.

She encourages single women to have self-confidence, and work hard. She advices her fellow women not to give up under any circumstances.
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In Maruthamunai: Tears, trial and triumph of humanity

by Dushiyanthini Kanagasabapathipillai

“I lost 12 family members in Boxing Day Tsunami in 2004 including my parents” Abdul Hameed Sithy Quatha (30) in Maruthamunai.

“Lost our house as well. Human loss is irreplaceable. I managed to safe my sister’s baby” cries & describes her unforgettable memories of Tsunami

“The waves hit the height of a coconut tree in Maruthamunai.When I screamed “Sea waves are coming to our place, nobody believed me”.

“I immediately ran while asking everybody to leave,and took nothing except my sister’s just born baby”.

“I survived standing on an empty piece of concrete slab at few feet with the baby tightly held to my both hands”.

“I used to have nightmares after Tsunami.I did not want to live,but others gave a moral support to rebuild my life.I got a sewing machine”.

“I began to stitch dresses.I started to concentrate on my life slowly.I got married in 2006. My daughter Ayesha Setha was born in 2007″.

“I got a house from an organisation. I miss living with my beloved parents.It is very difficult to forget the memories of Tsunami”.

“I want to educate my daughter,I want her to become a teacher. I sew and earn some money. My husband is very supportive”.

“My prayers are always with the families which lost its loved ones. We have to be prepared to face disasters” says Abdul Hameed Sithy Quatha.

Abdul Hameed Sithy Quatha burst into uncontrollable tears,and queries continuously whether the mankind has not treated the ocean well?

in Dec 2004-more pictures from Maruthamunai
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Thiruvempaavai-a ten day worship for Lord Siva begins

By Dushiyanthini Kanagasabapathipillai

Thiruvempaavai – a ten day worship for Lord Siva begins today, Dec 23rd. Devotees gather at dawn in temples to sing melodious Thiruvempaavai.

This is a penance observed by unmarried girls to get good husbands.They wake up early,go to the streams to have a bath&sing at temples.

Thirukoneswaram – One of the five Eswarams – Sivan temples in Sri Lanka. – more pics

Thiruvempaavai is a part of Thiruvaasagam which was composed in the temple town of Thiruvannaamalai during the Tamil month of Margazhi.

Thiruvempaavai consists of 20 hymns & sung by devotees during the month of December & January. Saint Maanikkavaasagar composed Thiruvaasagam.

Kolam is drawn at the main entrance of the Hindu temple during the Tamil month of Margazhi. It invites the devotees to the temple.

Special rituals are performed & Lord Siva is decorated gorgeously . It adds extra flavour to the cold morning. It’s also known as “Paavai Nonpu”.

Saint Maanikkavaasagar’s life story “Thiru Vathaur Adigal Puranam” is read during the festival at the temple by the devotees.

The month of Margazhi is considered holy & ideal for prayers & meditation. Saint Maanikkavaasagar’s marvelous love flows like honey in his songs.

Chithamparam is famous for Thiruvempaavai.Tenth day celebration is known as “Aaruthraa Thrisanam”. Many travel to Chithamparam witness it.

A slide presentation of Thirukoneswaram, Trincomalee, Sri Lanka; and Thiruvasagam rendered by ‘Isaignani’ Ilaiyaraja, with Budapest Symphony Ochestra

“Thiruvaasagaththitkku Urugaathaar Oru Vaasagaththitkkum Urugaar”- “One who doesn’t melt for Thiruvaasagam, would melt for no other words.”
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